WHAT IS PREMATURE EJACULATION?
The most common presenting symptoms in a patient who is suffering from Primary Premature Ejaculation is the time the patient has started his sex life, he is suffering from rapid climax or severe form of Premature Ejaculation. He is not able to extend his sexual intercourse (Vaginal Penetration) for more than 2 minutes even causing lack of orgasm in his wife. This condition over a period of few years leads to gradual loosing of interest in sex specially in patients wife, because due to repeated non orgasmic sexual intercourse, patients wife gradually looses interest in sex and does not give importance to sex and the frequency of sexual intercourse goes down gradually which in turn aggravates the problem of PE in her husband leading to complete loss of satisfied sex life. Thus Premature Ejaculation has to be understood after analyzing the satisfaction level among both the partners, if they feel they are unsatisfied and it's leading to non orgasmic sexual intercourse in majority of times in either of the partner then there is some degree of Premature Ejaculation. There is no exact definition of Premature Ejaculation and there is no exact time duration for sexual intercourse. It is stated that a man suffers from premature ejaculation if he ejaculates before his sex partner achieves orgasm in more than fifty percent of their sexual encounters. Various researches suggest that 85% of women never achieve an orgasm during intercourse, and 72% of women said that they have lied to their lover about having an orgasm, which they never actually had. With Cognitive Behaviour therapy (CBT) and counselling and through Multi Specialty Ayurveda treatment based on Rasayana, Rasa shastra, and Vajeekarana treatment, Premature Ejaculation can be permanently and effectively controlled, thus giving you a satisfied sex life. Proper Cognitive counseling is equally required for both the partners to control Primary Premature Ejaculation.
There is another condition called as Secondary Premature Ejaculation, where in the patient was happy and satisfied with his sex life in the initial few years of his married life. Later he developed secondary Premature Ejaculation and associated erection problem as well. Therefore Erection problem can also cause Premature Ejaculation which is 100 % curable. Once the erection is rectified, there is optimum level of blood circulation to the penis making the nerves healthy and helps in proper stimulation conduction to the brain in most appropriate way. Thus this condition can easily be treated as compared to Primary Premature Ejaculation.
Primary Premature Ejaculation requires Behavioral changes and sexual intercourse method changes along with correct and targeted Herbo-Mineral medicine. Proper Cognitive counseling is equally required for both the partners to control Primary and as well as secondary Premature Ejaculation
There is another condition called as assumed problem of Premature Ejaculation conveyed by majority of unmarried males with no active sex life. Here what they fail to realize is that Premature Ejaculation should never be assumed or judged based upon Masturbation or few attempts of sexual intercourse. Our body requires time to adjust itself with sex life and sexual maturity is very much required to assess whether a person has Premature Ejaculation or not. In majority of unmarried individuals there is always some degree of anxiety, curiosity, and fear related to sexual intercourse and that's one more reason for quick PE. Thus in short sexual maturity and experience in sexual life is very much required before judging whether a person has PE or not. Therefore such patients should come out of there constant worries thinking that they are suffering from Premature Ejaculation and they should lead a normal life and wait till sexual maturity or regular sex life starts in their sex life. Here Sexual Maturity means regular sex life. Leakage of sticky colorless fluid is nothing but prostaticfluid or fluid from bulbourethral glands or in common terms called as Pre Cum or pre-ejaculate or lubricating fluid which is 100 % normal response created by our body whenever a person is sexually excited.
When sexually aroused, the glands produce a mucous like fluid called pre-ejaculate. The pre-ejaculate fluid is a viscous, clear, and salty liquid that neutralizes any residual acidity in the urethra. The now neutralized urethra is a more hospitable environment for the sperm to travel in. This fluid also lubricates the vagina and maintains an optimum Ph for the sperm to travel and stay alive. High acidic ph of vagina can kill the sperm. Therefore leakage of this fluid is normal and has importance. In some people these glands are over reactive, whenever there is minimal sexual excitement, it causes discharge of too much of this fluid which sometimes creates anxiety and worry in few individual thinking that they have some disorder. Again it's a normal phenomenon. The over reactive glands can some time predict that the person might have Premature Ejaculation in his sex life, therefore we have seen many individuals with over reactive glands suffering from Premature Ejaculation. Thus with the right combination of Herbo-mineral medicine, this excess discharge of fluid and Premature Ejaculation can be controlled.
Majority of unmarried individuals judge themselves that they are suffering from PE from masturbation alone. Masturbation and Sexual Intercourse with a female is like the side of two coins which are entirely different, therefore young and unmarried individuals should not simply worry and get anxious thinking that they are suffering from Premature Ejaculation. Masturbation is an act of self sexual satisfaction which majority of individual do it regularly and they tend to finish the act within few minutes. Nobody tries to prolong the act nor do they do it slowly, whenever they are in the mood they self stimulate their genitals and within few minutes they ejaculate but Sexual Intercourse is different and our body and mind needs to get accustomed with sexual act which needs some time. Therefore in short, PE should never be judged by Masturbation or irregular sex life.
It's almost impossible to get an accurate definition of premature ejaculation: what some couples consider a satisfactory length of intercourse would be very inadequate for others. At the 2006 Congress of the European Society for Sexual Medicine, an American research paper reported: The average lasting time of men with PE was 1.8 minutes 'Normal' men lasted an average of 7.3 minutes. But there were males who claimed to have premature ejaculation, yet who could last up to 25 minutes. This clearly shows people have wildly differing ideas about what is normal. At the same Congress, it was reported that 2.5 per cent of men couldn't last 90 seconds inside the vagina. Those males undoubtedly have PE. From our own clinical experience, there are plenty of couples who would regard intercourse that lasts under 20 minutes as less than satisfactory, and would feel that any ejaculation in less than 10 minutes or so is decidedly premature. 'As a working definition, if either you or your partner feels that orgasm is happening too soon, then there is probably some degree of Premature Ejaculation. For a 'successful' sex life, proper' affection' should be present among both the partners and both the partners should love each other, understand each other, value each other, respect each other and have the desire for sex equally, then only proper psychological and physical 'arousal' takes place for a successful sexual intercourse. Many times it's seen that, there is some degree of relationship issues, or lack of proper sexual understanding between partners', lack of correct sexual knowledge, too much anxiety and wrong methods of sexual intercourse, curiosity and worry among the partners can create some degree of Premature Ejaculation. Hyper sensitive Glans penis and previous habit of Masturbation can cause Premature Ejaculation in many males. Masturbation is one such habit which is one of the main reasons for PE, because a person's mind and body gets accustomed to ejaculation within few minutes during Masturbation, which prevails even after starting the sex life. Therefore habit of Regular Masturbation for years actually causes PE in many men.